I am now 34 weeks pregnant, and the ex, father of my baby, never calls to find out how we are, it went 2 and a half weeks and I lost it and texted him saying he had one last chance to prove himself or he's not being at the birth. Well he knew I had a midwife appointment today and hasn't called, I feel this is the final let down. Is it out of order for me to draw the line and tell him he is not going to be at the birth? He says he loves our son, and he is desparate to be at the birth, and that he's just busy with his new job, and that he doesn't know how he ca help until the baby arrives. But the baby should come first, and he should want to know how he is! I am so hurt for me and my son that he isn't here for us. But am I being un-reasonable? It is his baby too and I don't want to be using him as a weapon, but I have gone through this pregnancy alone. Are his excuses fair enough? This ground is all so new I don't kow black from white right now
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