
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I had two things going in my favor that helped me (1) my daughter who still spends most of her nights at the house with me and (2) I purchased a new computer and had it arrive around the same time she left...as something to distract me and keep busy.
I know its really hard though, I had a tough time staring at the empty side of the bed for weeks on end. You'll get through it, the rest of us have...you will too, just gotta believe that. My best wishes to you.
Hugs
Just know we are all here for you.
This is a kind of post traumatic stress disorder. You need to learn about it and get therapy. What you do in the meantime is watch TV, get around people, sleep over at someone else's house some time if you can. A pet is good. Hey, I've even used teddy bears and night lights. Deep breathe and relax. Listen to the radio with an earplug when you go to sleep.
Stay on this board and obsess. Reading about other people's problems and sharing your experiences helps a lot.
However, I no longer want my stbx to even try. I dont seek her out for comfort, it's like we're two roomates with kids. Sad!!!
http://www.amazon.com/Journey-Abandonment-Healing-Relationship-Beginning/dp/0425172287/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/104-7652555-1158321?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1193352860&sr=1-1
It is the first thing that really made Sense to Me.