
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
KIM
You deserve better...
I must not love you because I keep doing selfish things...
I never did love you, really...
I suffer from depression and I don't know how to handle it, so I must leave you now...
You're tole in my life is over...
I was confused...
I could go on- but I stopped listening to his excuses. Hope this helps you :)
Uhum!
Now he is doing the same thing he did to me to his OW (cheating on her with several women)
He has had to change jobs several times because of his behavior. He may eventually run out of places to have a "fresh start"
"I never was in love with you, jist looking for someone to take care of me"
or her favorite one that I heard night after night.
"You're losing your hair, I cannot be attracted to someone who is going bald. Maybe you ought to look into a hair transplant?"
Take your pick, they both hurt equally as much!
1.) "We just don't get along" even though we hadn't had a fight in two months
2.) "YOU are the one who chose to move to Reno, not me." Even though he could have equally chosen to come here, my job is short term and I'll be back in WA in six months, and there's nothing like this job-wise in WA. Also, I thought we'd agreed to do this as a couple...guess not.
3.) "All of our problems are your fault." Right...
"I don't love you!!!"
"I love you but I'm not in love with you."
"I knew it was wrong even before we were married."
"I need some time for myself." (apparently "myself" was her nickname for the guy that she was seeing behind my back!)
"You're a nice guy."
"You deserve someone who really loves you."
"I'm not attracted to you."
"You shut me out the day that we got married."
"All of your annoying habits drive me crazy."
"All of the problems in our marriage are your problems."
OK...I suppose that's a good enough list for now. Sheesh!!! And to think that I still get nostalgic! Writing this list was an excellent reminder for me!