she was NEVER attracted to me,,,now 15 years later she decided to tell me about it. All i can do is try to laugh about it and try not to get to pissed off that she lied to me for years if that is the truth.......sounds like BS to me.....

I asked my spouse to eave...he ikes being "the poor baby"...he gambed, cheated, used internet porn...and lied and lied and lied....but I am the bad guy after years of trying for asking him to leave when I caught him red handed cheating with multiple women..arrgghh

KIM

My ex is blaming our buying a condo (in 2003) for our break up...not his screwing every gay man in Boystown in 2006!

Which one do you want?
You deserve better...
I must not love you because I keep doing selfish things...
I never did love you, really...
I suffer from depression and I don't know how to handle it, so I must leave you now...
You're tole in my life is over...
I was confused...

I could go on- but I stopped listening to his excuses. Hope this helps you :)

I don't know how I feel,, I love you but not sure I'm in love with you!

Uhum!

Here's another one I'll add: "I want a woman who LOVES me and WANTS to be with me"----> this said by my hubby who filed for a divorce after HE pushed me away, refused to answer my phone calls, and didn't speak to me for weeks, and was intertwined with the Oedipus complex

He said he wanted a fresh start!

Now he is doing the same thing he did to me to his OW (cheating on her with several women)

He has had to change jobs several times because of his behavior. He may eventually run out of places to have a "fresh start"

My ex pulled this crap on his ex wife..he'll pull it on some other chick too.

How about she said
"I never was in love with you, jist looking for someone to take care of me"
or her favorite one that I heard night after night.
"You're losing your hair, I cannot be attracted to someone who is going bald. Maybe you ought to look into a hair transplant?"

Take your pick, they both hurt equally as much!

I seem to recall your saying you threw out something he wanted, lied to him about it, then left him and went to your family, so then he filed for divorce. These are the reasons I am divorcing my husband, he is guilty of emotional cruelty, and I think my reasons are good ones.

Mine said that even though he WASN'T cheating (of course it was a lie) that he knew we couldn't go on as we were, butthat he was sure MY PRINCE CHARMING WAS JUST OUT THERE WAITING FOR ME! WTF????? Oh yeah, and "I think you are suffering from depression and you should seek therapy", which I did - only to be informed by my therapist THAT HE WAS BEING EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE. Go figure, huh? The "prince charming" thing still makes me laugh! Dumbass....

Hey look its easy to tell when they are lying..their lips are moving!

It's a tie, but here's my top three:

1.) "We just don't get along" even though we hadn't had a fight in two months

2.) "YOU are the one who chose to move to Reno, not me." Even though he could have equally chosen to come here, my job is short term and I'll be back in WA in six months, and there's nothing like this job-wise in WA. Also, I thought we'd agreed to do this as a couple...guess not.

3.) "All of our problems are your fault." Right...

He tells me "I can't live with someone who doesn't trust me." This is after he's always hiding his phone, has had previous affairs and now strange numbers on his phone when I do manage to get a hold of it. What a joke.

OK, here's my list:
"I don't love you!!!"
"I love you but I'm not in love with you."
"I knew it was wrong even before we were married."
"I need some time for myself." (apparently "myself" was her nickname for the guy that she was seeing behind my back!)
"You're a nice guy."
"You deserve someone who really loves you."
"I'm not attracted to you."
"You shut me out the day that we got married."
"All of your annoying habits drive me crazy."
"All of the problems in our marriage are your problems."

OK...I suppose that's a good enough list for now. Sheesh!!! And to think that I still get nostalgic! Writing this list was an excellent reminder for me!