My family started a tradition of camping for a week every summer when I was a child. For the last 17yrs it became a tradition with my children and my now STBX. My problem is that now my STBX wants to continue to include himself in this tradition. I totally understand that it wold not be very nice to exclude him but what can I do? Why should I have to spend my family vacation with my STBX? My family is still friendly with my STBX as I am but this will be a long time to spend with eachother. My divorce is due to be final right about that time which is July 4th. I was really looking forward to celebrating my INDEPENDANCE! Am I wrong to want to exclude him?
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