i'm currently separated from my husband for three months. We are going thru a divorce. my nephew is having a birthday dinner and he and my boys told him about it. now he plans to attend. i am extremely uncomfortable around him and don't want him there. i told him that i understand the kids invited him but that i'm uncomfortable with it and hoped he'd reconsider attending. it was just too soon. he started blasting me (as usual) about how self centered i am and that i'm being mean spirited. am i? I just want to enjoy my family without him there. Am i bad for not wanting him there?
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