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I wonder when I am in public what other people's lives are like. I feel like and I a faker by trying to pretend that everything is honky dory and I am happy.
I wonder if the stranger I just passed might be a fellow DS and how are they doing. I sometime wish I could meet some DS in person but that is scary to step out from being anonymous to being exposed. It is so much easier to share deep fears and broken dreams to strangers knowing that it will not come back to you in life.
Does anyone else here feel like that are living a secret life and are faking to fit in society? Everything in the media is geared for happy people and the radio with love songs drives me nuts. I know I might sound bitter and may be I am but I hope to be on the other side soon.
I wonder if the stranger I just passed might be a fellow DS and how are they doing. I sometime wish I could meet some DS in person but that is scary to step out from being anonymous to being exposed. It is so much easier to share deep fears and broken dreams to strangers knowing that it will not come back to you in life.
Does anyone else here feel like that are living a secret life and are faking to fit in society? Everything in the media is geared for happy people and the radio with love songs drives me nuts. I know I might sound bitter and may be I am but I hope to be on the other side soon.
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Speak up when you're in public, why not? If you feel you should be, then go for it. Who cares what others think? Let them scurry away from overload than boredom :)
Maybe it was my Not going with the Program that landed me out alone and on my own. When the family events were no longer satisfying I didn't want to go to them any more, missed a few in the recent times, so now I'm missing them all.
I don't miss 'em though.
Smile to others, say hi. Go back the last moment you lived with your parents and continue your life from there.
Except now we can stay Home and NOT be ALONE! There's more of a universe in this here internet than there ever was on my CB or out my front door where I grew up in a 23 building, 8 stories each, 8 families a floor housing project.
Different world nowadays, more people are our fingertips than ever before.
Strange how we all don't contantly run into people we know. Seems like when I go through things I go through them alone. I have MS yet don't know anyone Now with it. I'm separated and suddenly I only know married people.
Choose your additude! Make it a good one and go on from there.
good post FL :)