Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
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Well today is one year to the day since I left my my husband.. now ex- husband. I have opened the journal entry of the experience of it all for any of you wanting to see how it went down for me..
As the day progressed today at work - I was fine, as I left work- ran some errands went to pick up a baby gift for a one year old party Saturday and when it came to getting the gift bag (who wraps?) I just broke down crying because I realized I was not wanting to go to a party with a bunch of couples when I am the newly divorced one w/out my son- as he will be with Dad. Of course my friend will understand because she is a loving friend .. but how do you move past all this? Its funny, divorce is so different then "breaking up"
I dont regret my choices - I am at peace with my decision to leave - I gave 110% to try to save this marriage and still - I have this wall around me - and I try to crawl up and out, and keep falling back down..
So to add to this discussion, a peanut is neither a pea or a nut..
Coffee talk..
:)
Here is something to discuss
Well today is one year to the day since I left my my husband.. now ex- husband. I have opened the journal entry of the experience of it all for any of you wanting to see how it went down for me..
As the day progressed today at work - I was fine, as I left work- ran some errands went to pick up a baby gift for a one year old party Saturday and when it came to getting the gift bag (who wraps?) I just broke down crying because I realized I was not wanting to go to a party with a bunch of couples when I am the newly divorced one w/out my son- as he will be with Dad. Of course my friend will understand because she is a loving friend .. but how do you move past all this? Its funny, divorce is so different then "breaking up"
I dont regret my choices - I am at peace with my decision to leave - I gave 110% to try to save this marriage and still - I have this wall around me - and I try to crawl up and out, and keep falling back down..
So to add to this discussion, a peanut is neither a pea or a nut..
Coffee talk..
:)
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
back...talking amongst the others.. quietly been bites..
I luv what u've dun with ya hair btw...
I'm not walking in your shoes yet so I don't know what to say...except I'll take a slice of that yummmy looking cake & a cup of coffee....
A friend told me it takes a month for every year of your marriage to get to a point where one can feeling a level of peace and clarity. So for me it will take 18 months. So that means in approx 8 months I will be done with most of my grieving.
As for my ex, he's having a ball dating lots of women (although I seriously doubt he even likes women). He's signed up with Match.com and is dating women 35 to 60.
Hang in there I hear things will get better. I have good and bad days but I feel much better now that I'm out of that marriage. It was a very lonely and empty marriage for me.
I'm so sorry for your sorrow.
Alexandria
Whatever decision you make will be the right decision for you, but I think you go out there and you show those "happy" couples what you are made of.