I've been with my husband for 2 yrs now. we moved in together shorlty after being together for 5 months. After his separation with the EX, he was single for 4 years. He maintained a frienship with her because of the kids. They would go places together as a family but at the end of the day everyone went to their own home. She always wished that he would meet someone and have his own life. Here is the issue.... once I came into his life, she started to change--now she wanted more of him!! He HATES her because she has created scenes in public places towards me, she will egg our cars, put love letters in the mailbox, etc. In May, I sent her a letter demanding that she leave us alone or I will feel obligated to get the law involved--6 months went by and we did not want to have anything to do iwth her and she left us alone. NOW--she called him asking for help with the kids and forgiveness....before making a decision, he asked me what I thouhgt about it and since I am a kind person, I said ok --but I told him that I dont want her to start abusing the help we are offering.....but she is constantly calling him, sending food to the house...I get very jealous whenever she calls almost to the point that I change with him....
I am being overly sensitive or should I stand my ground? Someone please guide me.