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Now that my ex husband is finally paying his child support, by force. He is wanting to see our daughter more. It has taken this long, she's 12 now for this to start taking place? Now that he has his shit together all the sudden he says that I have kept her from him all her life. What? No..
I have been in the same city and town for 10 yrs now. To where he has moved too many times to count, he has had I dont know how many phone numbers, and so on. Now, he is trying to fill our daughters head full of crap from the past. I dont deserve this and neither does our daughter. How do I tell him if he doesnt stop then he doesnt need to call for awhile? How do I explain it to our daughter that dad is still stuck in the past and still has feelings for mom? She knows how is telling the truth but yet shouldnt feel stuck by his behavior either. Do others have this problem with their ex trying to dog the other parent?
I have been in the same city and town for 10 yrs now. To where he has moved too many times to count, he has had I dont know how many phone numbers, and so on. Now, he is trying to fill our daughters head full of crap from the past. I dont deserve this and neither does our daughter. How do I tell him if he doesnt stop then he doesnt need to call for awhile? How do I explain it to our daughter that dad is still stuck in the past and still has feelings for mom? She knows how is telling the truth but yet shouldnt feel stuck by his behavior either. Do others have this problem with their ex trying to dog the other parent?
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what is doing is wrong,let him know how you feel but don't keep her from him that would be cruel
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You really cant keep him from her because you dont like what he is aying but do tell him to knock it off. It's not fair to your daughter
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
