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Long story short:
Married 14 years.
Divorced less than a year.
Two kids 13(girl) and 9(boy).
EX: in a serious relationship w/a woman. they go to the same church, they go out to eat w/my kids and hers, she comes over to his house w/my kids there. her son and my kids play together. yadayadayada....
ME: dating someone out of town, whom i see occasionally. my 'dating' life does not interfere w/my kids lives or schedules. they have not been introduced to him yet. waiting on the right time and opportunity for that.
QUESTION:
he Thanksgiving Holidays are coming up. I'm spending Wednesday w/the kids and my family. He is spending Thursday w/the kids and his family. He will have the kids that weekend. So, I'm going out of town and leaving on Thursday. He, of course, has a problem w/it and is trying to make me feel guilty for not being w/the kids on the holiday. He says the kids said they wanted to spend that day w/me. I know he is just trying to make me feel guilty.
DO I REALLY HAVE ANYTHING TO FEEL GUILTY ABOUT?
Married 14 years.
Divorced less than a year.
Two kids 13(girl) and 9(boy).
EX: in a serious relationship w/a woman. they go to the same church, they go out to eat w/my kids and hers, she comes over to his house w/my kids there. her son and my kids play together. yadayadayada....
ME: dating someone out of town, whom i see occasionally. my 'dating' life does not interfere w/my kids lives or schedules. they have not been introduced to him yet. waiting on the right time and opportunity for that.
QUESTION:
he Thanksgiving Holidays are coming up. I'm spending Wednesday w/the kids and my family. He is spending Thursday w/the kids and his family. He will have the kids that weekend. So, I'm going out of town and leaving on Thursday. He, of course, has a problem w/it and is trying to make me feel guilty for not being w/the kids on the holiday. He says the kids said they wanted to spend that day w/me. I know he is just trying to make me feel guilty.
DO I REALLY HAVE ANYTHING TO FEEL GUILTY ABOUT?
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Is this repeat behaviour from your marriage?
Have you spoken to the kids for their view?
Second hand information is always best verified before acting on.
tell him to piss up a rope.