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Friends, I've been divorced since 10-11-07. The ex has yet to even go to see her atty. to get the final divorce documents which were signed by her and her atty and the judge last Wed.
Today, my EX mother in law, who lives about 1400 miles away and we've seen about 15 times in the last 12 years, has asked me to let her move in with me, and let her daugher, my ex wife stay here for up to 90 days. I don't know about anyone else, but is this not the most craziest thing you've heard?
My ex wife has joint physical/legal custody currently of our two children, I pay her support, I got to keep the house and all the debt. The ex comes and goes as she pleases and has made no efforts at getting her own place even to this day. We don't even have a parenting schedule, the ex just comes roughly an hour before kids in bed, then leaves til the next day. I've yet to change the locks or get an ordinance of any kind, trying to do things easily for her and with no stress on the children with when their mom moves out.
I naturally told her to go pound sand and I've been generous to let her daughter stay living here temporarily, but she must find her own place ASAP.
Now, I am waged in a war with a cheating ex wife, and her bi-polar mother who resides in a state 24 hours in a car away, who's barely in our lives and my kids don't ever want to talk to her, even when she is here.
Is this insane or does everyone one's ex wife's mother ask you to move in? All while knowing of her daughter's boyrfriend too I might add, which is why I divorced her in the first place.
Today, my EX mother in law, who lives about 1400 miles away and we've seen about 15 times in the last 12 years, has asked me to let her move in with me, and let her daugher, my ex wife stay here for up to 90 days. I don't know about anyone else, but is this not the most craziest thing you've heard?
My ex wife has joint physical/legal custody currently of our two children, I pay her support, I got to keep the house and all the debt. The ex comes and goes as she pleases and has made no efforts at getting her own place even to this day. We don't even have a parenting schedule, the ex just comes roughly an hour before kids in bed, then leaves til the next day. I've yet to change the locks or get an ordinance of any kind, trying to do things easily for her and with no stress on the children with when their mom moves out.
I naturally told her to go pound sand and I've been generous to let her daughter stay living here temporarily, but she must find her own place ASAP.
Now, I am waged in a war with a cheating ex wife, and her bi-polar mother who resides in a state 24 hours in a car away, who's barely in our lives and my kids don't ever want to talk to her, even when she is here.
Is this insane or does everyone one's ex wife's mother ask you to move in? All while knowing of her daughter's boyrfriend too I might add, which is why I divorced her in the first place.
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