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ex is giving me away, istn that nice??

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well, another day in the life of susan, i havent been on here for a few days but the latest is that i heard from my neighbor, (whom im not speaking to anymore either) told me that he works with a guy that my ex told could have me. apparently, he was partying with this guy and said where i lived and stuff and that he should go over there and that he could have me. can you believe it?? who knows what or who else he is telling people in the little devil town i live in. everyone knows everyone, but i just moved there last year but everyone else in the town grew up with everyone. its like deliverence for sure!!! i didnt give him the satisfaction of getting mad or calling him. i am gonna call the cops if he pulls up to my house or if anyone he has been telling this crap to comes to my house too. i guess he is telling them he can get lucky, just go to her house. i almost feel like getting a restraining order against him. what do you all think?
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WHAT A LOSER!!!!! That is low! I would want to get revenge, but maybe that restraining order would be better...
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I think he needs his ass kicked.
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Sounds like any way you stack this its a pile of BS. I would confront him with it and tell if the rumor is true to knock it off.
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If you can get a restraining order, that would be really good. This guys is putting you and your children in danger, a judge isn't going to like that.
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Don't even let that crap bother you. If you let it bother you then your letting him win. He still just wants to get in your head and don't let him. Forget the restraining order i think a good kick in the nuts would do the trick.
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Dang reading that made me mad. I can't shake it. !@$%#@! I am so glad I have a son! Recently my son said " Tell whoever that is you are talking to that if he does anything freaky to hurt my mom I will track him down and gut him." LOL.
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I would get a restraining order right now if you can! It may make him think twice about saying stuff, whether or not its a rumor. Just think if some idiot DID think he was serious and took him up and came and tried something on you, it is dangerous! Either way, a restraining order would be a good thing.
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Isn't going to be hard to get a restraining order on hear say? Unless this is just the tip of the ice berg.
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you guys are awesome, i am a single mom with two kids at home and i hope no one actually has the balls to show up at my house. my ex hangs around a lot of drunks so i wouldnt be surprised if one didnt show up eventually, but he's gonna leave without being able to stand up if he does show up!!
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I would be rip roaring mad. I would have a sign on my front door, if you are not specifically invited get lost and a miniture baseball bat.. which said, this is a sample, the real one is inside, and Iknow how to use it.

for him, I would try and get evidence of what he said and us it against him

a) with his family
b) to keep him away from your child
c) as evidence in the future should he come after you for support

LOL and you were worried about him with the OW and thinking of maybe taking him back.. what do you think now?
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I would be rip roaring mad. I would have a sign on my front door, if you are not specifically invited get lost and a miniture baseball bat.. which said, this is a sample, the real one is inside, and Iknow how to use it.

for him, I would try and get evidence of what he said and us it against him

a) with his family
b) to keep him away from your child
c) as evidence in the future should he come after you for support

LOL and you were worried about him with the OW and thinking of maybe taking him back.. what do you think now?
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If it is the men your ex is talking to that you are worried about showing up then I don't think you can get a restraining order. And it doesn't sound like the ex is planning to come around. I would just let it go and if anyone in town comments blame it on to your ex's drinking. Try to ignore it.
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Susan...the man is a flake. I hope none of his friends take him seriously. I know my wife lost all our mutual friends and some of her own friends.
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oh i FINALLY saw the light after i heard that. he better not ever pull up in front of my house. you know its weird a while back i had a black pair of thong underware sitting on my front porch and i think it was from his OW, i just love it!@!
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A metal baseball bat. That would help for protection. Maybe a golf club, that is what my sister perfers. You can get both really cheap at most thrift stores!

I really don't think you would be ble to get a restraining order on heresay like this,but it never hurts to have the protection ready.

Aren't you really glad he is not yours anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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