Here i sit....feeling bad for my X who cant move on...he still thinks of me as his W....althoght i have remarried (1 year in July)....guess we have had so many breakups or "this is it" moments that he cant seem to accept it is over..we have a 14 year old so communication is a must....but their relationship is stressed all the time...so i try not to push this issue too hard with him ....afraid his anger or whatever may be taken out on her.....she will not live with me or even visit that is an issue still hurtful to me..but bad to this issue.....how to be NICE...without just saying it like it is....i care about his well being...but that is all.....and making that clear, well i am fearful to do so...so i just go on....hoping he will move on...slowly even ...just not turn it into anger...towwards me or our child....it is a tough balancing act to perform....thanks for listening...
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