Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
The teenage across the street told meon Friday that last Saturday night while I was out, my ex had parked his car on a differant block and walked to my house, he went threw my mail box and he said looked mad because I wasn't home. I have not spoken with my ex in over a month,and we haven't been together for over 4 months and he just comes over to my house and dose that? I told the kid that if he sees that again to call the cops. That sort of creeped me out. Has anyone else had to deal with something like this?
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
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Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...
The one good thing you could do is to get a PO box and have all your mail sent there. Better to protect yourself than for your STBX to be going through stuff when you cannot get to it. Reason being, my STBX is at our house two nights a week with our kids, and he has taken a few of the bills too, and taken the mail from mailbox, only to tell me two weeks later that he took the phone bill, and told me he'd pay it, then for the phone bill to be sent to a collection agency.
Bottom line is tampering with your mail is a federal offense. This is not something I would let go. You need to take care of this right away.
Just my two cents worth :)
My attorney told me I could change the locks, even thought at that time he owned half the house. She also told me he was legally entitled to enter the house, and could call a locksmith or break down the door with no consequence.
It is really weird that someone who doesn't belong in your house comes over, pokes around...I started carrying all of my legal and financial papers areound in the car. Also a large box of photos. i asked myself what would I really regret him taking? It was the pictures. For a while I had some jewelery in the car, too, but decided that was just too stupid (with my luck, someone would break into my car and hit the jackpot!) so I hid it in the house.
One time, he did his laundry here! he is so dumb he left a bottle of detergent.
He doesn't come around anymore, that I know about. But people around here know the story and would tell me if they saw him. It's one of the reasons I am planning to get a new dog that doesn't know him. What kind of dog loves kids but hates ex-husbands??
Good luck! ~P
KIM