I guess my question is how do I deal with the love I still have for my soon to be ex wife in a healthy and appropriate way. I obviously can't let it manifest in the same way as before but love like other emotions such as anger builds up inside you until it drives you mad. It is so heartbreaking having the only person who you ever loved start to hate you which I really do think she has begun to hate me. The little bit of time she is at home she doesn't say one word to me. Why Can't I hate her? It sure would be easier if I did but I just can't. Can anyone relate and give me some words of wisdom. I know I must sound pathetic being so hung up on someone but I wouldn't have married her if I didn't intend on loving her unconditionally for the rest of my life. Thank you all so much for the help.
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