It appears that there are people out here on this site that are here for more than healing. Yes, I am referring to the people who are so concerned about who is friends with whom or who is flirting with one another!

Last week South and I were flirting on the "flirt" post and having fun. It appears that there are people out there who have been upset by this. If you are one of them, we are sorry. We had no intentions of hurting anyone, just having fun.

People from all areas, sexes and ages tend to get along for one reason or another. There is nothing wrong with this. If you have a special friend whom you speak with or email, etc outside of this forum good for you. I believe some of the friends I have made on this site will be lifelong friends.

Lately there have been some emails coming in with people upset about the flirting. For some reason these people are more concerned about what others are doing rather than their own healing. I am not referring to those friends who have commented in a nice way. I am talking about the people who are actually upset and feel the need to make negative comments about our friendship. I have made friends out here who have helped me come through a lot of issues and feelings with my divorce. Yes, I have IM'd, emailed and even spoke with these people on the phone. I feel fortunate to have been able to connect with some people well enough that we are more than pictures and text. I hope someday you people who are so concerned will turn and look at your ownselves and begin the healing process because criticizing people for being friends is just rediculous!