My wife told me that she cheated on me at the end of Sept. I listened to my friends and family and filed the paperwork to end my marriage. (BIG MISTAKE) We both signed the paperwork the end of Oct. on the same day we got married. Thanksgiving day she called me to let me know that she missed me. We both took new jobs and she moved into an apartment that was closer to her job and I moved back into the house. A number of times she told me that she wanted to try to repair our realtionship I agreed completely. The Sunday before Christmas she told me that things would never be the same so she thought it would be best to end the marriage. A number of times she has told me that I started the divorce so I'm the one that got us to this point. After a few days of thinking I have decided to stop the divorce. I feel it would be best to have more time to think about everything. We have went through 3 holidays, changing jobs, and changing living arrangements. I'm not sure we have gaven this decision the time it needs. I wanted other option on this matter. Am I just delaying the pain or am I doing the right thing? I don't trust myself anymore so I'm asking for a second option.
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