My nephew who is 21 yrs old, is over in Bagadad, in the Army. He's orig from AZ, but was stationed over in Fort Bragg in NC. He met a girl there and she kind of pressued him into marriage 5 mos ago. (She'S NOT pregnant). Anyhow, my nephew, John, managed to save up approx 14K (some before they met and some while they met and married). Well earlier this month she emptied out the bank account,left town and starting divorice proceedings. She left their poor kitty in the apt for nearly 2-3 weeks then the neighbors heard the poor cat crying loudly and that's when the trashed apt was discovered. Not only is the Apt Manager holding my nephew john liable for the damage, but she didn't pay rent for a few months either, although my nephew had sent the money to pay it. She was apparently not happy that he "ignored her" (per her my space blog). Never mind that he's been at war for nearly two years. He was due for discharge in a couple of months, but now that she's left him with no money, he's re-enlisting. We have heard that she moved Raleigh but don't have the exact address nor phone number. (Anyhow, it's not as if we could call her and she would say ooops sorry, here's his hard earned money I helped myself to). It's awful since my newphew cannot take any legal actions since he's over there. This has devestated his mother (my sister). Plus the fact that we lost our mother earlier this month, our dad's cancer is back and now this! Please....any sugguestions is appreciated. thanks