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I have now met people that I really believe I can classify as being Dumber than ROCKS!!! I met the people who own that house that I want to buy...they Don't WANT to Sell IT!!!
I have fussed and fumed to my friend, she has said words worse than mine. We are just dumbstruck right now.
It seems that Owning a Business for all these years counts as NOTHING. It isn't Employment History. Down Payment, now in my Account-Well, they really weren't concerned with That MUCH!!!
After All, I DIDN"T MAKE THE MONEY!!!!!
OMG!!!
OK, gonna breath and smile. They were concerned for me, since I have no Rental Record. He started to suggest that I Dump my Dogs to increase my chances there.
That got nixed by his wife. She probably figured that the man wouldn't live much longer if he said one more word.
Anyway, the nasty man Did Ask what my mortgage had been...I had the awesome thrill of watching his froggy eyes pop out. At least he THEN asked for a credit app from me.
No Clue what will happen, but I doubt it will be good.
Oh, and stbx seems to have docked my settlement for the money he has given me for "allowance" while I lived in the house.
Nothing is Ever just Easy.
I have fussed and fumed to my friend, she has said words worse than mine. We are just dumbstruck right now.
It seems that Owning a Business for all these years counts as NOTHING. It isn't Employment History. Down Payment, now in my Account-Well, they really weren't concerned with That MUCH!!!
After All, I DIDN"T MAKE THE MONEY!!!!!
OMG!!!
OK, gonna breath and smile. They were concerned for me, since I have no Rental Record. He started to suggest that I Dump my Dogs to increase my chances there.
That got nixed by his wife. She probably figured that the man wouldn't live much longer if he said one more word.
Anyway, the nasty man Did Ask what my mortgage had been...I had the awesome thrill of watching his froggy eyes pop out. At least he THEN asked for a credit app from me.
No Clue what will happen, but I doubt it will be good.
Oh, and stbx seems to have docked my settlement for the money he has given me for "allowance" while I lived in the house.
Nothing is Ever just Easy.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
As far as your STBX taking some of that money, that was an "agreed" amount by BOTH of you & your mediator KNEW about this, right? If this is the case, your STBX will have to pay that money back that he "docked" you, as YOU are still his financial responsibility UNTIL the divorce is final or the judge says otherwise....
If you need to talk, I'm here for you!~!
"Keep Your Chin Up!~!"
(((((((((TAMI))))))))))
They think that They might like to live in the home.
I am working on my "sense of humor" right now...I know that it is still alive and well.
I may just need to look at some other direction.