Remember, you are a person, just like him, and you are loved by many, including the big Man upstairs:)

Yeh, one thing that might help is to remember you have to take care of yourself and lead a life with or without him in it. If oyu can try to focus on yourself and what you need for "YOUR" future, when you talk to him, you just might hear something you dont like, see something you know isnt really for you.

I have just come to the realization that if someone can leave you, especially in a state like that, they are more apt to do it again. people learn from behavior. If they feel OK about what they are doing, nothing you can say or do, can chanege their mind. You should think that was as well.

Lots of prayers for you.

Just remember that whatever happens, there are people who love you and you will get through ok. If you guys decide to work things out or not, either way it will be hard work and you'll have struggles. But you are never alone. Being here taught me that.

I wish you all the goodness I can send your way. This is so hard to have to wait like this, also to feel that you have no control of the situation. But you are just as important in this also, you need to remember that.

Kal, you have my prayers. But you also have my advice; know that you are a beautiful person and that you will be ok. The sooner you realize this the less painful his blow will be. In your head really quick run through your plan. "what if"...what if he does want a divorce...how will you survive? You just do.

Prayers and Hugs. Know that you have support waiting for you.

I pray for the best for you. Also I pray for Gods will to work in your marraige. I hope it goes well for you.

I would start saying in my head exactly what you dont want to hear him say so you get used to it incase he does. Picture him saying he wants a divorce and get ready for it.. when my husband told me he wanted to leave me and didnt love me anymore and then left me I fell apart completely, but you do pick yourself up and carry on, Im on day 24 since he went and Im functioning..ten times better than last week, one hundred times better than when he left.

this is how i feel: God has a plan for every single one of us. we don't know what the plan is, but trust and faith is what keeps me going. i know that God does not want people to divorce, but i also know God does not want people miserable in their marriages either. pray for strength, courage, peace and the grace to get through whatever happens when you talk to your husband. and good for you for getting a therapy appt. i hope things work out the way you want and you'll be happy. we are all here for you.

My prayers are with you both, hope you come to some resolution today and you are able to move forward.

(((HUGS)))

I hope it goes well for you!

This is a scary time but try not to overthink it.It is a day just a day.

My prayers are with you.

hugs and prayers to you my friend