The friends I have made and the support from DS really got me through the rough times and helped me survive the divorce. But, I was realizing that now I'll read discussion topics and it's like it pops me 6 months into the past where I'm trying to figure out the ex, rethinking how I tried to fix the marriage, etc. (trying to fix something now over and unfixable). As I think about it some more, I wouldn't want to stop participating in the discussions and things because I'm probably not really healed & moved on until I CAN participate without backsliding. Anyway, just wondered if others have the same experience.
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