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So last night I get a call from my STBX at 2:20 in the morning on my cell phone. By the way 2 is when the bars here close. He kicked me and my kidas out on oct 22nd and he has been a jerk ever since I haven't talked to him because he knows what appartment complx I live in but not which appartment. He has called my moms and made threats about hireing a Lawyer if i don't let him see our 3 year old. This man has done nothing but treat me like shit and has been verbally and mentally abusive. When he is drunk he has been physically abusive towards me. I am trying not to be a bitch and file a protection from abuse order because of our child. I also am hopeing that if I don't really put up a fight and ignore him that maybe he won't contest the divorce. But now i'mkind of worried. I know that if he knew which appartment was mine he would have been here last night. It scares me because when he and his first wife split he crawled into her house through the doggie door and got into her bed and tried to rape her when he was drunk. She stabbed him with a pair of scissors. I only found this out a few weeks ago from his son. If I do get a PFA he is going to retailiate because thats how he works. By the way yesturday his sons girlfriend called me to see how I was and how the boys were. She also wanted to let me know that she and David (my step son ) still want to stay friends and would love to bring the baby by and to see Rustin the child i had with STBX. I think it was to find out which apartment i live in. Anybody out there been through this? What do you think?
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