Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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on thansgiving day it was hard enough to be w/o the boys 1/2 the day I had to go pick em up 1/2 way. my question and my problem is, shouldnt thequestions from stbx be left for when we are not in the middle of drop off/p/u. i went to get the kids at a gas station 1/2 way between towns at 4 and stbx asked when i thought id be home onfriday. i simply said i didnt know. he asked again, you have NO idea when you'll be back and i said no. ive read that when you do/pu kids leave it for just that and not for discussions. he is a p..ck. now i got home at 4 I stayed at moms overnight with the boys. hes not even home . He made it seem like he was sooo concerned and wanted time wtith them and he's not even f'n here. this is driving me batty. this whole living situation. he needs to get out. hows that? we need to get on a schedule and stick to it.
what do you think?
what do you think?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
In an ideal world, drop off/pick up times should be just that. I have to say that I LOVE texting - a great way of instant communication without actually speaking!
I just try to ignore him if he wants to start a discussion. The hard part is there are still legal things that need to get straightened out and we never see each other except this time.
He could be, of course, just yanking your chain by putting the kids in the middle. Another ugly, unfair thing to do to the kids.
Good luck! ~P
Good Luck,
KIM
Just a side note... did you have control issues in the relationship? It sounds a bit as if he wants to know where you will be... what you will be doing... etc... steer clear of that as well... BIG HUGS coming your way!