Just found out that my husband is back in contact with the woman he had an affair with. I thought he had broken off all relations with her, but he lied about the affair, why wouldn't he lie about seeing her again. I know ultimately it doesn't matter who he is seeing, but it hurts so much. He called this woman his soul mate. They were together 4mnths, we were married for 18 years. Every card and letter he ever sent me, called me his soul mate. I know that he is not coming home regardless of who he is seeing- but it just hurts so much. We are not even legally separated, and he is out there acting like he is single. Why can't I move on. He obviously has.
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