Hi my name is Tina. My husband was just laid off on Jan 22. And the past few days he had hinted and suggested that he and I get a divorce. I do not know if he is joking or not. See he and I met in High school in New Jersey in 89 and married in Aug 22,98. And even then our relationship was not the best. He always left me behind while he and 2 othere friends went out and did not come home till wee hours of the morning and thought bring me cold food made up for it....NOT! and he could not understand why I was upset. And now that he has been laid off he will later go file for unemployment. Then said I should refile for SSI. But first I have to wait and see what he will be getting from them before I can apply for it. And now he has hinted and said that we may have to get a divorce so that I could get SSI. Well I thought he was kidding but when I looked at his face I could see he was not. So I would like your advice dose it sound like he really mean he wants a divorce? Or do you think he is just kidding and I have nothing to worrie about? Any advice would be great. Thank you. Tina Marie,.....
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