I am not bragging when I tell you that I have been a saint thru this divorce. I asked for it when it was not what I wanted and I put the house on the market and I have done 95% of the work on selling this house. I have done 65 showings in 2 1/2 weeks with 1 dying cat and 2 other cats that I have had to push into a car and sit in 100 deg. heat for hours while some dumb ass agent showed my home. Now I have decided to change agents as this seems to be going no where. The other day the STBX drives his truck into the garage door and makes a gaping hole. Who gets to fix it? Me because there is a showing and we can't have people seeing that. He was supposed to call me yesterday about getting a new real estate agent but no call then...no call today. This is the same pattern of our whole marriage. I HAVE TO COME TO HIM TO MAKE HIM FEEL IN CHARGE. WTF? It is time for me to stop being a nice girl isn't it?
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