Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Today, it took an objective co-worker to chime in about my situation with my STBX. In the most delicate way she could put it. She said I was being "played." I've basically sold my self respect to get my STBX back, especially in the beginning of this separation. But to no avail.
The co-worker went on to say that the little that she knows about my situation, that my life is turned upside down while STBX remains with our house, kids, dog etc. Meanwhile I live like a vagabond.
I wont get into too much here but rest assured I will fight for for myself now. I will not look back and be bitter for giving up everything just because I had false hope of reconciliation. A false hope that I believe she had been using to her advantage.
Time to stand up!!!
Pump me up folks (not for a knock down drag out fight; but for a cool confident person who will survive with self respect). Thanks in advance
The co-worker went on to say that the little that she knows about my situation, that my life is turned upside down while STBX remains with our house, kids, dog etc. Meanwhile I live like a vagabond.
I wont get into too much here but rest assured I will fight for for myself now. I will not look back and be bitter for giving up everything just because I had false hope of reconciliation. A false hope that I believe she had been using to her advantage.
Time to stand up!!!
Pump me up folks (not for a knock down drag out fight; but for a cool confident person who will survive with self respect). Thanks in advance
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
You seem to have taken the first step. Congrats.
Indifference is the ultimate goal. Keep one eye on the horizon and one eye out for potholes in the road to dodge.
And good luck!
Boobs!
That's what it took for me. one person here who said the thing I needed to hear to make me stand up and find strength in myself. You are on your way. You have beautiful kids, you have a job, you have every right to be happy. You are a caring person to top it all off. It's good you are starting to realize it and we will be with you every step of the way!
You have taken the first huge step!
Keep your confidence, keep reminding yourself of your dreams, hopes, wants and needs. You can still have a family without a spouse! So get your family back and send her a packin. :)
Glad to see you are on your way!
Take care and God Bless you in your journey, He'll guide you and keep you strong!