STBX called me today. Said he wanted a divorce. I dont understand 3 weeks ago he was telling me how much he loved me and not to give up, now he doesnt give a shit. I dont understand probably never will. He is living with his brother and a bunch of other men who are single. I will not let my kids go over there because its a bad influence. He says he is not going to pay me alimony, and will try and let me have the house. Dont want to get an att. wants to go to mediation. I had to drain the bank acct. so I could get home. I am 2000 miles away and he calls and tells me this. So tommarrow I start the drive home, hopefully the house will not be cleaned out. I dont undertand how after 20 years he can stop loving me in a matter of weeks. I just dont understand. And the rejection has made my life upside down. I told him I hope he has a happy life, and best wishes, but really what I wanted to say, is I hope you drop off the face of the earth, you miserable piece of shit.
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