This is the first time letting this out other than my family. About 2 weeks ago I found out my wife has had 5 affairs in the last 6 month's. This is the women I planned on spending the rest of my life with. I am not saying we had the best relationship, we did have some problems. I suggested we go to counseling, we did and she was having affairs while we were going. I could handle it better if we didn't have 3 young kids. Not only did she break my heart, I feel she has just taken my kids childhoods from me. She stated that she wanted a divorce before she did this, but she didn't ask for one. I feel like I was thrown out with out a care. I am a great father to my kids. I have worked from home ever since the kids were born so I am as much of the care giver than my wife. To make things worse she will force me to go bankrupt. I spoke with an attorney and they stated that the affairs make no difference by the law. The big stinger is that she had an affair with the man next door. She has invited him and his wife to go to dinner with our whole family a number of times. I could go on for ever with this and it gets worse. I love this women with all my heart and I am crushed. Now she says she wants me. I dont know how she could do this if she ever wanted me. I dont know where to go.................
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