I have been married a little over a year. A couple months before we got married I found out my husband had cheated on me with a coworker of ours. I decided to forgive and let it go. Well, now, over a year later, my husband was offered another job and went out to celebrate with some friends. a couple nights later him and i with our son went out for dinner because he was going to be training out of town for 3 months and was leaving that night. As we were eating a friend of his came up to the table and said "hey who was the girl that called me on ur cell phone saturday night(the night he went out with friends). I was upset and went out to sit in the car. While I was in the car I noticed his cell phone was in there and started looking thru his text's. There were 2 that were sent from him to an odd area code saying "I love you" and "U can timagine how much I miss you" i confronted him and found out it was the girl he had cheated on me with prior. I kicked him out and didnt see him for weeks. He finally came back begging for forgiveness and I told him I would forgive if he let me know what he was doing and what money he was spending, becuase he would just take off and go wherever and spend a ton of money without mentioning it, so because of my trust issue now I wanted to keep tabs on me. He did ok for like 2 weeks, then stoppd telling me everything. He thinks that I should have gotten over it by now and he shouldnt have to tell me anything. Am I being stupid or is it ok for him to have to work for my trust?
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