Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I hate when people tell me that.
That is a perfectly normal reaction. I know its not very helpful to the situation, but dammit its a defense mechanism just like blinking when something is flying at your face.
I was watchin CNN last night and there was a panel analyzing the presidents words specifically in respect to the whole Iran nuclear capacity could lead to "World War III". They were trying to get in his head, especially since now the facts from 16 intelligence agencies say otherwise. I think this is a perfect analogy on many different level.
The importance of the presidents decisions on our lives.
The need to understand so that we can agree or disagree with his motivations.
The list goes on.
Nobody says don't worry about what the president thinks just move on. LOL
That is a perfectly normal reaction. I know its not very helpful to the situation, but dammit its a defense mechanism just like blinking when something is flying at your face.
I was watchin CNN last night and there was a panel analyzing the presidents words specifically in respect to the whole Iran nuclear capacity could lead to "World War III". They were trying to get in his head, especially since now the facts from 16 intelligence agencies say otherwise. I think this is a perfect analogy on many different level.
The importance of the presidents decisions on our lives.
The need to understand so that we can agree or disagree with his motivations.
The list goes on.
Nobody says don't worry about what the president thinks just move on. LOL
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
As I've healed and moved forward, I can see now that thinking about the other person does nothing for you, in the healing process. That's where you have to shift your focus. Improving, growing, and being strong for you. Moving on in your life, for you, not them. Not letting them occupy space in your head.
It is a process. This stage happend to all of us, there's really no way around it, but try not to "live there". It's going to click one day and you'll say "why the hell did I give her so much of my time?" It's a process, remember that. Baby steps.