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Don't care

deleted_user
deleted_user
I found that recently, sometimes, I just don't care anymore as to what happens. I am too tired to fight anymore. I give up. If he wants the divorce, so be it. I hope eventually I feel like this all the time. Beats feeling desperately sad and mourning.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You go girl, I am trying to get there. I think we need to get a chart so we can give ourselves little smiley stickers when we have good days. Then we can see we are moving forward. I am proud of you. Anything is better than the sad and mourning.
LarryLDN
LarryLDN
Sometimes when we let go we get better results ;)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Lynn - the chart is a good idea.

I don't care anymore - Phil Collins - that's the other song I could not remember for that other thread.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I find myself in the same place these days. She expects allot from me with nothing comming my way other than rejection and blame and hurtful words. I do find myself feeling better and more excited about the future even though the divorce will do a number on us financially. I am not going to wory about that.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Not caring can be so freeing, it is one of the mantras I repeat to my self when I wake up in the middle of the night and cant get back to sleep. And LarryLDN is right, sometimes you do get the best results when you let go. GOOD LUCK!
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