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Kind of a stupid topic, but I had some pretty big revelations today, and I found myself actually SMILING tonight. Even more surprising - I was happy! I think, although I have a horribly rough road ahead of me, I've made peace with the fact I can't make him change his mind. And, when he sends the papers, I'll sign them.
I have a new hope, and the next time I meet someone I connect with, I will try not to make the same mistakes and hopefully they will be the right person for me. He has to be out there somewhere.
Thinking of ALL of you, and wishing you all the very best.
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This is good to hear :D

Hoping for good things for you
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Sounds like you are headed in the right direction. I hope to be there some day. Thanks for the post.
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oh and btw...this is not a stupid topic...its inspiring to hear the good stuff!!!

Thanks for sharing
((((((((hugs))))))))
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Good stuff is always good to hear..gives the rest of us hope.
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I was just thinking that I actually took a picture of my house my beach and where I live. That is alot of I's where there once was we's. Still get that wierd feeling in my stomach. but it is ok
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very well said and i couldn't agree more right now
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You sound very wise for your age! I'm waiting for the hope to drop in. Hugsss!
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Hello, Dear.... I found myself LAUGHING today, and it was wonderful!!! It was the Kathy Griffin show, she is too much!!!
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I'm very far from wise! I just have an overactive imagination. My saving grace in this horrible situation has been being able to imagine the moment I see stbx after the divorce is settled, and having him realise what a monumental f*%k up he's been. Because, despite what he thinks, I really am the best thing that will ever happen to him.
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I'm very far from wise! I just have an overactive imagination. My saving grace in this horrible situation has been being able to imagine the moment I see stbx after the divorce is settled, and having him realise what a monumental f*%k up he's been. Because, despite what he thinks, I really am the best thing that will ever happen to him.
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oh yes, there is nothing more satisfying that hearing "you were the best thing that ever happened to him, he's f***ed up his life after the two of you broke up. I heard this last month from a relative of my first 'broken heart'
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