So i won't go into detail of course about my marriage problems, but that I kicked him out around christmas and have been trying to work things out with him every since....i guess im too nice. I dont know. Tonight we had another argument about his supposed "friend" and over the past month things had been looking up for us....until now. I asked my husband what he wanted and he said that he wanted to get back on his feet and his first concern was his children, which were from a previous marriage, who are living with his parents. I of course came on the bottom of the list and he seemed to think that our marriage is not important enough to be top. I know that he loves his kids, i love his kids too...but how can someone think so little about our marriage...does anyone believe that marriage should come before kids? I know its a sticky situation cause if you say yes, then people might think your a bad parent...but then I've heard people say that if the marriage is working then everything else falls into place....plus the kids don't live with us never have....so does anyone have any advice on this? Should i feel really terrible about that? I hope i havent seemed like a bad person...but i just feel really unimportant in my husbands life now.
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