
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Part of your past will remain just that....memory. Don't combine the pain with the memory.
The pain fades when its over and you go about your business.
It happened to me so many times in the past, that by the time I did really fall for someone again, get remarried, and all that, I was always "prepared" in my mind for it to eventually happen again, and it eventually did, so now I'm just at that point where I try not to let myself get that close to anyone anymore, thinking in my mind that I'll never find someone who can accept only me for who I am.
basically, when it happened again, I remembered how rough it was the first time, being alone, so even though the 2nd wife is doing the same things the first wife did, I am reluctant to get a divorce, to be honest, because I get tired of finding someone, breaking up, finding someone else, breaking up, just seems to be an endless cycle, which makes me feel bitter in my mind sometimes. I try not to let that happen, but inside I know its there.
I don't know if I'd ever want to remarry, as I'd be so afraid of being in pain like this again.
I still think about him every day, but for less time and with less intensity.
I just have to keep faith that I will heal and it won't hurt forever.