
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I am the dumpee. I have been on DS long enuf to knwo that I ought not to spend time wondering about stbx. But I find myself wondering, again, does he ever feel anything bad or negative? Is it all good for him? I mean, he took off with a married woman who has had a string of lovers and moved his-self into a trailer park in the woods to be near her. Even if it was a "good thing" they are bound to have their first spats, first negative behavior from her husband, first inkling tha tthey don't have paychecks anymore, etc. I guess the better question is : why do I care? why am I wondering in the first place?
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Maybe I'm the one with the courage to do it rather than him but it's still a horrible feeling. Do I feel justified....I did that blame thing but the reality is that it was broken and throwing more stones to see who did ti will only make it more broken and painful.