My wife of jusy over a year has told me she wanted a divorce. She has been depressed for some time now and it has obviously affected our marraige, but i was in it for the long haul regardless of how long it would take. I went to my parents for a week to give her space and time and when I got back she had made the decision. I have been out of the house for a month and she is moving along with everything. I hurts so bad, mainly because i miss her and i didn't want this. I have tried to get her back, explain how i felt, etc. but she is firm on her decision. How do i know if this is only a decision from her clouded mind from her depression and she is making a huge mistake? And if so, how do i try to get that through to her without begging and seeming like a stalker? I really do not care how i come off to her, but i also do not want it to change the outcome. I hurt so bad that i cannot breathe.
Posts You May Be Interested In
A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...