Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
stbx washed the floors in the bathroom and the kitchen last night while i was out. what the hell? hes never done that b4. i usually wash the floors . he also emptied the litter boxes and cleaned out the sink in the kitchen. the good thing for me in this situation is that he is concentrating on the wrong things. i am concentrating on the right stuff. like myself and the boys. he is just wanting to look good by doing stuff around this house. he is nt the primary caregiver of the children though no matter how much f'n house work he does So he'd better get ready for a fight. we are going to mediation within the next 21-30 days or so and im not budging on him liveing with the boys at his mothers house. she hasnt been there for these kids in all 10 years and now they want them to live with her. uuuuuughhhhghghghghgh some one help me out here cause im floored i want to go to mediation, like yesterday , just to show him im sticking to my plan. i will get the boys on the bus, off the bus , be with them in the summer etc. not his socalled "friends and family" Last i checked i am their mom and a damm good one at that
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I always do the dishes.. blah blah blah... okay.. so I went back to work.. and I take the bus at 5:50am....get home at 7pm.. my mom and dad take care of the kids after school and feed them dins... so..
doing the dishes...packing the dishwasher is hardly doing all the work. He cleaned the toilet like 4 times in 25 years. He always was making appearances.. in the last two years at the school.... giving everyone the impression that I did not care enough to be there.. well hell I am working!
you have the car.. I am bussing....
he is trying to make it out that you are not domestically the best parental unit.
That somehow his Moms place is a better environment... bullshit.
You are a Mom...and their mom and will remain that...he can try and think otherwise...
As if everyone was blind before and suddenly they're watching with a microscope. Stupid tactics on their part, but funny to watch.
The courts are very aware of these b.s. ploys to look good. I wouldn't worry or get p.oed at all, I'd just sit back and watch the show as he makes a grand performance. lol.
You've always been there for them and that will be very obvious and no one will agree to allow them to go from a house of their own into a house with a person who doesn't have it together.