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does he want a medal?

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the stbx is studying social studies with my10 yr old right now and being talkative with me today. he actually brought up that bonjovi willbe coming to ct. at mohegan casino. like i care enough or have the money to go. why is he being exta cheerful today. he never hardly did studying with them or any homework. all of a sudden he's interested. please somebody keep me from throwning up over this fake behavior.
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He's brownnosing them to make sure he doesn't lose their affection in the divorce.

Give him a quarter and tell him to call someone who cares.
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ah, don't hold back and puke all over him :)
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Well I would have played that to backfire on him..........."OH MY GOD you're going to take all of us to see them?"...then let him squirm his way out of it!
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it is compensation behavior. see, we who have done wrong, sometimes over compensate, or do more than folks are accustomed to - to rid ourselves of guilt for our sins. stay strong.
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Maybe it's legitimate ,maybe he is realizing how important the children are and is afraid of loosing them. Just a thought.
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Maybe its his way of saying bye to the kid, and making the best of a bad situation with you.
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I understand. My h took my daughter shopping for a bra the other day!!

Still, who cares what his motives are? If he is more involved with your kids, yahoo! It will benefit them in the long run, so let it be.
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