I will try to make this as brief as possible. to explain how my husband treated me on the other hand would not be brief , so I will try. I left my husband for his unfaithfulness and lack of care or concern for me. Is it wrong for me to want him to pursue me for reconciliation? Should I reconcile with him if he still thinks it is all my fault and that I need to be willing to do my part? I cant see how counseling will help us. I moved out of the state because that was the only way I could survive financially with my 2 kids. And It was in january . He has not purchased a plane ticket yet. He has though , gone and bought a new cell phone , gtotten his car serviced , gone shopping at walmart , hung out with his family who hates me , moved in with them , gone to mexico twice. Does he even care that I left? Every time we would discuss getting back together he would make excuses. should I just back off and not talk to him? Would that be manipulating him?
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