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So I am driving down the road from work yesterday and my stbx calls to ask how I am. I was trying to think of why he really called since we have been separated for 3 months this time and he has maybe called me twice always about a financial matter.
He says, Hey I just read in the paper that this grocery store has a whole Thanksgiving Dinner on sale for $20.00.
This is our first Thanksgiving not together for 15 years, there is no other woman other than his mommy, I am still grieving the loss of our marriage and he calls me about a cheap turkey dinner. Hurts a lot.
Then like a dummy I called him back and told him how this made me feel.
I know this will be suprising, but he had no response. Hurt again.
I guess it takes more than 3 months not to respond to this stuff.
Need lots of hugs
beach
He says, Hey I just read in the paper that this grocery store has a whole Thanksgiving Dinner on sale for $20.00.
This is our first Thanksgiving not together for 15 years, there is no other woman other than his mommy, I am still grieving the loss of our marriage and he calls me about a cheap turkey dinner. Hurts a lot.
Then like a dummy I called him back and told him how this made me feel.
I know this will be suprising, but he had no response. Hurt again.
I guess it takes more than 3 months not to respond to this stuff.
Need lots of hugs
beach
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Will be my first Thanksgiving without him or my mom! Still not sure what I am gonna do yet, other than smile...still have a lot to be thankful for.
My STBX is treating me like crap and all I can think of is how hard this holiday season will be for my STBX. I had tried being fair and trying to make it easy on him and he has decided to be hatefull and evil. I had to get a protection order. What makes me feel bad is that my husband lost his daughter to a car accident about six years ago, and untill our son was born 3 years ago he would become so depressed. I know he loves our son but he is very irresponsible and even dangerous. I would have like to have been able to let him see our son for the holidays but he is drinking and doing really dangerous things so now he won't see our son. he is responsible for his own actions so why do I feel guilty doing the right thing?
The big idiot.
HUGS, HUGS!