Anyone out there have a relationship that ended with you and your ex getting back together? Does this ever happen or am I just fooling myself? I keep hoping for him to wake up and realize what he has done. Why do I keep doing that to myself? He is away from his kids in another city and not seeing them very often. He is living with new girlfriend while he is looking for a new job and he is broke. Why does he think that this is a better life than the one he was in? I feel that it is a total insult to me that he would choose this way of living rather than be home with his kids. He must really hate me and our old life to reject us like this. I just don't understand how this can be a better choice for him. It certainly isn't for the kids as they miss him very much and don't understand that dad is not living with us anymore. Actually, we only had one child together and the other child is my stepson who i have over for sleepovers and visits as i have been part of his life since he was 3 yrs old. Our lives have been torn apart and he just doesn't seem phased by it at all. I know I am not helping to convince him to come back as i am one day hating him and very bitter, to forgiving and being friends with him, and to crying and begging to come back. I am up and down and all over the place with my emotions. What works? What is it going to take for him to stand up and notice that he has made a huge mistake? Or for him to realize that he wants his family back? Is this possible or once they're gone, there're gone? I just got to find some peace of mind!
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