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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Thru therapy I am finding out we learn our behavior from our parents. I never really believed much in that. It always seems like everyone blames their parents or the way they were raised,on their issues in life. Well, my 17 year old daughter and boyfriend broke up recently. She keeps mailing him letters. I asked her what she writes about. Her response, " I have to keep reminding him what we meant to each other, cause he forgets". I felt like I had been stabbed in the heart. Dose anyone else see patterns with their children?
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