Is it really possible to become friends with your STBX? Especially if it was not your choice to file for divorce? If there is another person involved? If you are still in love but your STBX isn't? I miss being with my STBX and being a family. However, I don't know how you get past their choice to move on and create a different life for themselves than they had with you. My STBX thinks we will get along better divorced than married. I don't understand how chosing to leave your partner makes for a better relationship.
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