What would you do? Marriage is not working. Been trying. Husband just isn't into it. No sex. No connection. lonely. fighting is escalating. 2 children. He is a wonderful dad. Good to the kids. Good to everyone but me. Something sticks with me that I heard Dr. Phil had said......kids don't want to be from a broken home.....BUT they would rather BE from one then live in one. BUT....they have eveything here......and if I leave because I am unhappy.....isn't that truly selfish when on my own I could not afford all that they have if I stay? He is sleeping on the couch.....has been for a few months. As roommates we are fine. It's me who is sad. I thought I wanted him to want me again.....but now I realize I don't really care anymore.....too many hurtful things said. I am getting used to our arrangement. Kids are little.....they don't even know we aren't sharing a bed.....or connection anymore. Except for the fighting. I know now I can stay and pretend until they are older....in fact I can start trying and making it work to protect what we have...(I am a SAHM by choice-I am educated and can go back to work if I have too-was just trying to wait until they went to school)BUT is it best for them? What would you do? I am very sad and hurt but starting to be resigned to the fact he just isn't into me....not really sure at this point he ever really was....think we were just wanting to take the next step.....don't know....
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