Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Maybe yourself and it didnt work, or someone else and it did or didnt work.
I have been thinking so much about this lately. I have talked to STBX about this a lot too. I know we would have to work on it, but does anyone know of any positive times that a marriage was reconciled. And how long were they separated? We have been separated for 1.5 years now. But I think everything (love) is still there and its just getting stronger despite the warnings I have been given by some posters that I may be setting myself up for heartbreak. That may be true, but the family time together is somewhat worth the heartache for me.
I have been thinking so much about this lately. I have talked to STBX about this a lot too. I know we would have to work on it, but does anyone know of any positive times that a marriage was reconciled. And how long were they separated? We have been separated for 1.5 years now. But I think everything (love) is still there and its just getting stronger despite the warnings I have been given by some posters that I may be setting myself up for heartbreak. That may be true, but the family time together is somewhat worth the heartache for me.
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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Has anyone tried these supplements? Do they give MGers more quality of life by improving memory and overall well being?Thanks!Barbel
I know of THREE couples that reconciled AFTER divorce final. One lasted another year, the other, about ten years. Two were due to infidelity, one just marital neglect, which ended because of infidelity. One is still kind of together but he's trying to leave her for like 6 months but can't...
Now, if you do reconcile, I strongly recommend first:
Counseling. As a couple and individually.
Counseling for the family. Don't move back intogether as a couple until at least you know why the marriage broke down the first place and how to fix it.
Each relationship is different and with you it may work depending on how much BOTH of you are willing to do to make it work and what you are willing to go through to make it work. Is it worth it to both of you?
I'm rooting for you!!
In my opinion, seperations are just trial divorces. I hope your situation is different.
I have never seen a seperated couple get back together, but my therapist says it happens all the time, after the divorce is finalized.
It happens. I hope you do what's right for you and your family.