Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So many times I see both men and women here who are hurting to the point that they feel weak. They feel like they can't go on and that they just want to runaway or just plain give up.
They tell stories of abuse, infidelity, and how they stuck by that person in hopes they would change. The love they had was so strong that they put up with the abusive, of this uncaring person for a long period of time.
I look at some of these people who for some have dealt with years and years of this abuse and I think they were "Strong" to be able to put up with so much for such a long time! I myself could only handle a couple months of the treatment I received before I told her I had enough.
So for those of you who feel weak and like you have no where to go. Think about how strong you were to deal with the crap you did. You are stronger than you think! You proved it by dealing with terrible circumstances. Let that strength guide you on this new path.
They tell stories of abuse, infidelity, and how they stuck by that person in hopes they would change. The love they had was so strong that they put up with the abusive, of this uncaring person for a long period of time.
I look at some of these people who for some have dealt with years and years of this abuse and I think they were "Strong" to be able to put up with so much for such a long time! I myself could only handle a couple months of the treatment I received before I told her I had enough.
So for those of you who feel weak and like you have no where to go. Think about how strong you were to deal with the crap you did. You are stronger than you think! You proved it by dealing with terrible circumstances. Let that strength guide you on this new path.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
True.
When I look back, I wonder where the strength came to get through the Mud.
Never ever again :-)
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Nobody 'wins'.
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The winner is the person that becomes stronger after having gotten through this.
There has to be a winner...afterall isn't this the "game called life"?
I was scared to leave. During the physical abuse stage, it would have been "cleaner" if he just killed me. And that is about as honest as I can possibly be. I couldn't trust the courts to do right with my children. I knew there would be unsupervised visitation if we split up.
When it went to just mental abuse and tearing the house apart, well...same principal applied...and the kids were in private school. We were sacrificing to keep them There.
Then it was Home School.
There was always a reason, and I was always afraid to leave. I didn't see anything but Even Worse waiting.
I prayed that things could get better if I could learn enough and become valuable enough to him.
For me it wasn't strength, it was cowardice.
Leaving Sacramento is the first strength that I have ever shown to him or my children.
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I know what your saying. I just wished everyone to 'win', but more importantly to be happy.
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The only 'winners' are the Lawyers.
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