Last week I agreed to go to counseling with my husband of 17 years if he agreed to a seperation. We have had some really rough times here lately and I feel strongly that we need time apart. Our son's birthday was last Wednesday so we agreed to wait until after the weekend. I offered to be the one to leave but he said no, that he would so that the kids could be at home. Well....of course the weekend has come and gone. Since that agreement it has been very peaceful at our house. We havent argued once, but then again we are only talking if needed. But now for the hard part...he hasnt left. So I am not sure if I need to break up the peace and ask him to or if I just need to ride it out. I know things will go back to being bad again because they always do. Just dont know if I should enjoy the peace will it lasts or push for the inevitable. Any thoughts???
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