I told my ex that in future, we only have contact concerning our son, and it will be via email. I informed him that I want nothing to do with him after he lied to me about his girlfriend (they were together after I gave birth to our son when I was staying with him, but he said she was just a friend etcetc and even tried to do 'stuff' with me). I have been very hurt and angry so that is my reason for not wanting contact. It just pro-longs everything and makes it harders to heal. Anyway, a week after I told him this, he text me (out of character, normally I don't hear from him), asking what he was supposed to be lying about. I didn't respond, as he knows full well. He HATES not being replied to, it's a power thing (I think??), he tried calling me the next day, I ignored. He then tried calling again the day after that, ignored... and just now he's texted me again asking if I'm busy or ignoring him. I don't know what to do, I'm angry that he hasn't even asked how our son is. I don't want to reply, it is all playing into his stupid games and giving him the power. If I text him, I think he will either ignore me so he has the 'power' in his head, or it will lead to an argument, which I want to avoid. What do I do? Does this sound like a power game or am I being paranoid? All I know is that it is totally out of his character to contact me at all, so chasing it up is even more un-usual. Sorry for long post, just confused...
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