Remember that story in the Bible about the two "mothers" claiming and fighting over one baby and one giving in so that the baby wouldn't suffer? Well... my STBX is manipulating the situation and now our 5yo is crying and crying to stay with his daddy. I am dying inside. I don't want my baby to be in so much pain. I feel that if I let him stay with his daddy he will be happy and he won't be hurting so much. That is more important than anything else. Should I even consider this? My STBX is a really good father. I can't say anything bad about his love for his children. This is so painful!!!
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